你是谁,你竟敢判断别人的家仆?他或站立,或跌倒,都由他自己的主人管;但他必站得住,因为主能够使他站得住。

- 144

当主耶稣教导我们不可判断别人时,他真正的意思;并不是当某人犯错时,我们得要睁一只眼闭一只眼,假装没注意到,或拒绝分别对与错,善与恶。

判断其实就是“吹毛求疵”。“吹毛求疵”是一种热切的倾向要去批评他人、不认同他人、虚伪和定他人的罪。

这种人常常挑别人的错,他们所说的话都是非常负面的、为的是要让自己变成监察官,坐上审判他人的位子,把自己变成别人的天主,来宣判他们的罪状并定了他们的罪。

让我们今天就聆听主耶稣的教导,不要判断别人,不要做别人的监察官,因为只有主耶稣才是我们的天主。

天主祝福你。

:)

Who are you to pass judgment on someone else’s servant? Before his own master he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand.

- Romans 14:4

Whenever we are taught not to be judgmental, it doesn’t mean that when someone is at fault, we turn a blind eve and pretend not to notice them. It doesn’t mean that we refuse to discern between truth and error, goodness and evil.

To be judgmental means to be censorious. “Censorious” is the eager inclination to criticize, disapprove of, find fault with others. It is harsh, hypercritical and condemning of others.

A censorious person is a fault-finder, who is negative and destructive towards others, and pronouncing judgment and condemnation as if he is the judge of their lives.

So, let’s be careful and not to be judgmental towards others today.

God Bless

:)